Does She Love Me?

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She may be weird to you sometimes or she may be the most awesome person you ever met. She may be happy sometimes or she may be sad. She may talk casual with you or sometimes she may talk romantic. She may love Dogs or may even hate cats. Her favorite word may be MINE or maybe not. She may like to get on roof and watch stars and moon all night long. She may like to take long walks at dawn. She may like to watch sunrise more than the sunset. Instead of being alone, she may like to be in solitude. She may want to fly instead of staying on ground. She may want to live an adventuress life. Girls mood changes from time to time within a blink of an eye. No doubt, each and every one of your girl is awesome in some distinct unique awesome way.

   If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing.
If she’s worth it, you won’t give up. If you give up, you’re not worthy.
Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.
                                                                                    –Bob Marley

In the start of every relation, both of you have no idea what life may have for both of you in future therefore it is good to know where the emergency exit is. First condition of any relationship is that, it should be a two-way road relation. As it is the base of any relation. You cannot stay in a relationship when the other person has no interest of moving forward. That type of relation would be a total mess. So, it is important to know that you both are interested in a relation or you both have same intentions towards each other. How will you know that it is a two-dimension relation? When the time given by you in a specific relation is the same of the time given by her, you will get a clear cut idea that it’s a Perfect relationship. But that doesn’t clarify that either you both have same feelings for each other or not. As you give time to a relation, your roots (of relationship) will get deeper into the ground. As the time moves on these roots gets deeper and deeper.

                             “Your branches can only reach high if your roots go deep”
                                                                                                   -Brian logue

When you think about her, when she isn’t with you, you desperately wait for her text or you die to meet her. You’ll feel the presence of some strange feelings within you. But you may not recognize or understand that feeling because you may have never experienced it before. As she also gives sign you receive OMENS, you’ll know that both of you have same feelings but don’t confess because as I’ve told you that girls mood often swings. The only way to be sure of her love for you is when she confesses it by herself or you just simply guess it by reading signs, if you are a good observer. If you guessed it right, you’re lucky. If not, let’s not talk about that condition. The SIGNS!!!

What signs you’ll get when she loves you? To be precise there are millions but for instance she will give you the time which you deserve. She will respect you and your privacy, she will be waiting for that right time when you’ll be able to share your feelings with her and she’ll be glad once you tell her. She will care for you and will take care of your health or meal. She will even change her mood for you. She will be honest with you in all the things she shared with you. She will start forgiving you for the things you’re sorry no matter how big the mistake is. She will be the perfect secret keeper for you and will also share her secrets with you and only with you. She will become an open book for you. She will love to get to know about you and your family. She will get jealous when you’re being shared among others not because she doesn’t trust you but because she loves you more than anyone. No matter how weird your past or present is, she will listen to your problems patiently and will try to heal your scars and wounds with her love and affection. Those things, which she hates doing for herself, she will do happily only for the sake of seeing a glimpse of smile on your lips. She will know about your mood or feelings without you showing her, it may be like a Deja-vu thing of her and will try to cheer you up with no stones unturned. Most importantly, she will help you to search the meaning of your life, even if she’s lost. We don’t need all of these signs, we just need one sign and that would be enough, if you didn’t find any sign then keep looking and searching for it but remember to keep loving her. The only thing which matter in a relation is Trust. When she has given you her most important secrets, you are the keeper and protector of it and when needed, you should make sacrifices to save her trust, her heart, her love.

“The Worst suffering in a persons world is Love and the best remedy for that suffering is Love”

You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect—you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break—her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there and love her always!

“When you can’t believe your eyes, you can always trust your heart. Love makes anything possible.”


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